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Couple Operating System
Combining relationship and behavioral science to achieve lasting love. Discover proven, research-backed tools and skills to build the relationship you actually want.
Couples who invest in their
relationship are…
Happier
Couples in life long relationships report higher levels of relationship satisfaction.
Healthier
Couples in fulfilling relationships get sick less and have fewer illnesses.
 Live Longer
Couples in mutually fulfilling relationships love up to 10 years longer.Â
 Better Sex
Couples in monogamous long term relationships report have more and better sex.
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Sound Familiar?
You chose each other for a reason.
But somewhere between the day-to-day, the stress, and the distance — it got complicated.
Maybe connection feels harder than it used to. Maybe you argue about the same things over and over. Maybe you feel like you are running on different tracks.
The good news is this is not a you problem. Nobody teaches us how to build a great relationship. The skills exist. Most couples just never get them.
That is exactly what Happy Twogether is here to change.
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One Class. Real Results.
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Science of Soulmates combines the research of Gottman's Seven Principles with the simple proven strategies to give you a complete foundation for lasting love.
A research-backed program that teaches you the tools happy couples actually use. Grounded in over 40 years of relationship science — including Gottman's Seven Principles of Healthy Relationships (Dr. John and Julie Gottman) — and the Couple Operating System developed by Paul Kuhn. You will learn how to deepen friendship, manage conflict, build shared meaning, and create the relationship you actually want.
In-Person — Austin, TX
Small group sessions led by Paul
Live Online
Instructor-led cohort with a fixed start date
On-Demand
Self-paced at any time
What We Offer
Programs Built for
Couples Like You
1-on-1 Relationship Coaching
Work directly with Paul for personalized guidance tailored to where you and your partner are right now and where you want to go. Â
Online Relationship Classes
Research-backed classes you can take in - person in Austin, live online with Paul, or on - demand at your own pace. Built around the Science of Soulmates curriculum.
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Your Relationship Advocate
Hi, I'm Paul.
Four years into what is now a 30-plus year relationship, I was introduced to the concept of relationship enrichment. Beth and I were invited to a Couples Conference where we discovered simple, powerful, research-based tools for communicating, handling conflict, and building lasting love. It changed the trajectory of our relationship.
Unfortunately, most couples do not know these tools exist — or only discover them when in crisis, and it is too late. Happy Twogether exists so couples do not have to wait for a crisis to discover proven strategies for thriving together. Every couple deserves the vision, skills, and support to build the relationship of their dreams.
Research-based. Non-sectarian. Cross-cultural. Built for modern couples.
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